CHINESE DRAMA REVIEW

Love Me Like I Do (2023) Review

Pretty People, Cute Moments… Please Move Already 😭

Chinese title我的老板为何那样

2023 · 18 Episodes · Modern Romance · Workplace · Comedy

Liu Yinjun as Liu Xilai; Zhang Muxi as Tian Tian

3/5DroppedHappy ending · Researched
Love Me Like I Do 2023 Chinese drama poster featuring Liu Yinjun and Zhang Muxi

THE ROMANCE CHECK

Quick Answers

Relationship spoilers below.

Did I finish Love Me Like I Do?
No. I dropped it because the pacing and getting-together stage dragged.
When do they officially become a couple?
Around Episode 16 out of 18, according to the supplied relationship research.
Does it have a happy ending?
Yes. The researched Episode 18 ending has Liu Xilai proposing to Tian Tian, and she accepts. I did not personally watch the finale.
Do they break up or separate for a long time?
No prolonged main-couple breakup was identified in the researched storyline. There is a trust conflict involving his deception and her career before reconciliation.
What about chemistry and kissing?
Good chemistry, attraction, jealousy, and flirting; kissing is present, with later romantic payoff. The official iQIYI highlights include a major Episode 14 kiss.
What is my rating?
3/5. Cute cast, good female lead, handsome CEO, too much waiting.

Quick Drama Details

English title
Love Me Like I Do
Chinese title
我的老板为何那样
Year
2023
Episodes
18 · roughly 30 minutes each
Country / language
China / Mandarin
Main leads
Liu Yinjun as Liu Xilai; Zhang Muxi as Tian Tian
Rating
Status
Dropped
Genre
Modern Romance / Workplace / Comedy
Platform
iQIYI / iQ
Ending
Happy — researched proposal / engagement
Romance
Good chemistry; kissing present; slow-to-official

A PERSONAL VIEWING JOURNAL

I Did Not Finish This One

I did not finish this one.

I tried.

I really did.

But somewhere along the way, Love Me Like I Do slowly turned into background noise while I was working on other drama reviews, and eventually I realized I was no longer actually watching it.

That is usually my sign.

If I can start writing an entirely different review while your drama is playing and not feel like I missed anything important…

We have a pacing problem. 😂

And that is frustrating because I actually liked a lot about this drama.

First of All: Why Is Everyone So Pretty?

I need to get this out of the way.

Everyone in this drama is beautiful.

EVERYONE.

The leads?

Beautiful.

The side characters?

Beautiful.

The people standing around the office?

Probably beautiful too.

Apparently the casting requirement was:

Must have a face card.

Nobody was allowed onto that set looking average. 😂

Honestly, sometimes I kept watching just because the entire cast was so pleasant to look at.

That counts for something.

Just not enough to save the pacing.

Tian Tian Was Probably My Favorite Part

I really liked Tian Tian.

She is exactly the type of modern female lead I enjoy because she actually has a personality.

She is short-tempered.

She gets irritated.

She talks back.

She stands up for herself.

And most importantly, she is not immediately blinded by money just because a rich CEO appears in front of her.

THANK YOU.

She wants to become a toy designer, and she actually takes that dream seriously.

Liu Xilai keeps trying to make her his assistant, and she basically keeps going:

Why would I want to do that?

Exactly, girl.

She has an actual career goal.

She does not suddenly abandon her entire life because a handsome rich man tells her to follow him around all day.

I also really liked her styling.

Cute.

Youthful.

Modern.

No grandma clothes.

We love to see it.

And Then We Have Mr. CEO

Liu Xilai is absolutely a CEO cliché.

There is no point pretending otherwise.

Rich CEO?

Check.

Cold personality?

Check.

Jealous?

Check.

Possessive?

Check.

Emotionally awkward?

Check.

Has some bizarre medical condition that somehow only the female lead can help with?

OF COURSE. 😂

We have seen this man before.

Probably 47 times.

But I actually think Liu Yinjun carried the role really well.

The character itself is not groundbreaking, but he made Liu Xilai entertaining enough that I did not mind the cliché as much.

He has good comedic timing, he plays the jealous CEO thing well, and he makes the character likable even when Liu Xilai is behaving like an idiot.

Which happens.

Frequently.

Sir, Just Tell Her Why You Need Her

One of the earliest things that started testing my patience was the whole assistant situation.

Liu Xilai has a severe reaction to blood and apparently the color red.

When he sees red, he can become dizzy or faint.

But for some mysterious reason, when Tian Tian touches or holds onto him, he does not faint.

So naturally, he wants her around him.

Okay.

Makes sense.

What does he do?

Does he simply explain this to her?

Of course not.

Instead:

Liu Xilai: Be my assistant.

Tian Tian: No.

Liu Xilai: Be my assistant.

Tian Tian: WHY?

Liu Xilai: …

Tian Tian: No.

SIR.

JUST TELL HER.

😭

This is exactly the kind of plot-driven communication nonsense that annoys me.

One normal conversation could solve the entire situation.

But if he tells her immediately, there goes the plot.

So instead, we drag it out.

And the funniest part is that Tian Tian has a perfectly reasonable reason for refusing.

She wants to design toys.

She does not want to become some CEO’s personal assistant.

She is basically being asked to change careers without being told why.

I would say no too.

The Hemophobia Situation Took Me Out 😂

Now let us discuss this man's relationship with the color red.

The drama explains that his fear comes from childhood trauma connected to blood.

And yes, blood phobias can actually cause people to become dizzy or faint.

That part is real.

But Liu Xilai apparently does not just react to blood.

He reacts to RED.

Just red.

And red is everywhere.

So naturally, my brain immediately went:

Target logo?

Collapses.

Apple?

Collapses.

Red traffic light?

“TIAN TIAN—”

THUD.

😂😂😂

The drama's explanation is basically that the original blood-related trauma became associated with the color red, so red itself triggers him.

Psychologically, I can understand what they were going for.

But the way the drama presents it is still hilarious.

This poor man should not be running a company.

He should be living inside a beige room.

WHY ARE WE STILL NOT TOGETHER?

And this is ultimately where the drama lost me.

This is only 18 episodes.

The episodes are around 30 minutes long.

This is not a 40-episode historical drama.

This is not a 36-episode slow-burn epic.

EIGHTEEN.

So why did the getting-together stage feel like it lasted approximately 74 years?

There is jealousy.

There are little dating schemes.

There is flirting.

There is more jealousy.

There are misunderstandings.

There is a whole probationary-boyfriend situation.

There are people giving Liu Xilai relationship advice.

There is more circling.

And I am sitting there going:

YOU BOTH LIKE EACH OTHER. PLEASE MOVE.

From the full plot information, they do not officially become boyfriend and girlfriend until around Episode 16.

EPISODE SIXTEEN.

Out of eighteen.

Excuse me?

That means almost the entire drama is spent getting them together.

For me, that is way too long for this format.

I do not need a couple together immediately.

I actually like buildup.

But I also want to enjoy them being a couple.

If your romance finally becomes official when I can practically see the end credits approaching, what are we doing?

This Should Have Been a Short Drama

And that is really my overall problem.

The story itself is not bad.

The actors are likable.

The female lead is great.

The male lead handles the CEO cliché well.

The cast is gorgeous.

There are cute moments.

There is chemistry.

There are genuinely funny scenes.

But they stretched the wrong things.

This story would have worked SO WELL as a tighter short drama.

Cut the repetitive push-and-pull.

Cut some of the unnecessary jealousy games.

Move the relationship forward sooner.

Keep the good banter.

Keep Tian Tian's career storyline.

Keep the ridiculous red-phobia premise because I am sorry, that is entertaining.

Then let us actually enjoy the couple.

Instead, the story kept circling around the relationship until I started losing interest.

Eventually I was barely watching.

And then I stopped.

RELATIONSHIP MILESTONES

💕 Relationship Timeline

I dropped the drama before finishing it, so later milestones and the ending were checked afterward rather than personally watched.

Researched relationship progression — spoilers below. Episode details combine my supplied research with official iQIYI highlights; they do not mean I personally watched all these scenes.

Since I did not finish the drama myself, I checked the remaining relationship progression rather than pretending I watched scenes that I did not.

  1. Early episodes

    Forced proximity

    Researched — not personally watched.

    Liu Xilai realizes Tian Tian's touch prevents his red-triggered fainting and becomes determined to keep her close.

  2. Episodes 5–8

    Feelings develop

    Researched — not personally watched.

    They spend more time together and attraction starts developing.

  3. Episodes 9–10

    Jealousy phase

    Researched — not personally watched.

    Liu Xilai becomes increasingly jealous and aware of his feelings.

  4. Episode 11

    Confession

    Researched — not personally watched.

    He confesses.

  5. Episode 12

    Boyfriend probation

    Researched — not personally watched.

    Tian Tian essentially puts him on boyfriend probation.

  6. Episode 14

    Major romantic kiss

    Researched — not personally watched.

    Major romantic kiss.

  7. Episodes 14–15

    Trust conflict

    Researched — not personally watched.

    Conflict involving trust and Tian Tian's career. His deception involving his condition and her career opportunity causes conflict.

  8. Episode 15

    Reconciliation

    Researched — not personally watched.

    Reconciliation.

  9. Around Episode 16

    Official couple

    Researched — not personally watched.

    Finally officially boyfriend and girlfriend.

    Again:

    Episode. Sixteen.

    I am judging. 😂

  10. Episode 18

    Proposal / happy ending

    Researched — not personally watched.

    The story ends with a clear happy ending and proposal. Liu Xilai proposes and Tian Tian accepts.

My problem with the timing

So yes, the romance does eventually deliver.

I just did not have the patience to wait that long.

My problem: Episode 16 out of 18 is WAY too late for this particular drama to finally make them an official couple. 😂

Breakup/Separation: No prolonged main-couple breakup was identified in the researched storyline. There is a trust conflict involving his deception and her career before reconciliation.

Research note: Official iQIYI highlights confirm the Episode 11 confession, Episode 14 kiss and deception discovery, Episode 15 attempt to seek forgiveness, Episode 16 balloon romance, and Episode 18 proposal. The exact boyfriend-probation and explicit relationship-label timing, acceptance, and overall breakup assessment follow the supplied research; the episodes were not independently replayed for this publication.

💗 Shen Zhiyi’s Drama Reality Check

Did Not Finish — Unknown — stopping point not recorded. My opinions cover what I watched; later research is labeled below.

💕 Romance
Cute moments and good chemistry, but the getting-together stage dragged until I dropped it.
🔥 Chemistry
Good in my watched portion.
💋 Kissing
Present; the major Episode 14 kiss is researched, not claimed as personally watched.Researched — not personally watched.
🤗 Skinship
SomeHer touch and holding him are built into the premise; everyday couple affection takes longer.
🌶️ Spiciness / Adult Intimacy
MildResearched — not personally watched.Kissing and affectionate touching; the slow buildup outweighs the heat.
🚩 ML Red Flag
Jealous, possessive and poor at communicating; deception around her career creates conflict.
👑 Female Lead Competence
Tian Tian stands up for herself and takes her toy-design career seriously.
⏱️ Romance Timing
Too late for me: official boyfriend/girlfriend around Episode 16 of 18, from existing research.Researched — not personally watched.
❤️‍🔥 Relationship Payoff
I stopped before the ending; later proposal payoff is researched.
💔 Breakup
💛 Conflict Only — Not a BreakupResearched — not personally watched.Trust and career conflict comes before the official Episode 16 relationship.
⏳ Separation / Conflict
Trust and career conflict in Episodes 14–15; reconciliation in Episode 15, from research.Researched — not personally watched.
💍 Final Relationship Status
Engaged after the Episode 18 proposal — researched, not personally watched.Researched — not personally watched.
📖 Plot
Dragged and stretched the push-and-pull; I got bored and did not finish.
🐾 Animal Harm
A rescued kitten’s previous injuries and insecurity are discussed; this is not a depiction of the injury being inflicted.Researched — not personally watched.
Can blood phobia cause fainting?
Yes. Blood-injection-injury phobia can be associated with vasovagal fainting.
Is fainting guaranteed for everyone with the phobia?
No. Not everyone with blood-injection-injury fear or phobia faints.
Can psychological triggers become associated with other cues?
Yes, learned or conditioned associations can occur.
Does hemophobia normally mean “fear of the color red”?
No. Hemophobia concerns blood or blood-related stimuli, not ordinary red objects by definition.
Could someone develop an unusual red-related trigger after trauma?
An associated cue could become a trigger, but that would be specific to the individual. This is an interpretation of a fictional premise.
Is “every random red object = instant fainting” typical?
No. The drama heavily exaggerates the concept for its plot.

Can someone with a blood phobia faint from seeing blood?

Yes.

Blood-injection-injury phobias can involve a vasovagal response and fainting.

Can trauma cause someone to react strongly to associated cues?

Fear responses can become associated with cues connected to a frightening experience, so the basic idea of another trigger developing is not completely ridiculous.

Does hemophobia normally mean every random red object makes someone immediately faint?

No. That is where the drama takes a real phenomenon and turns the dial all the way up.

So:

Blood?

Reasonable trigger.

Blood-like imagery?

Also understandable.

Random red object across the room?

Sir, please remain conscious. 😂

Drama realism verdict:

The blood/fainting concept has a real basis.

The “anything red = floor” interpretation is heavily dramatized.

C-drama science has entered the chat.

Target logo?

Collapses.

Apple?

Collapses.

Red traffic light?

“TIAN TIAN—”

THUD.

😂

Medical background: Ritz, Meuret & Ayala (2010), The psychophysiology of blood-injection-injury phobia, International Journal of Psychophysiology, 78(1), 50–67. This is a discussion of a fictional premise, not a diagnosis or medical advice.

About these assessments

My impressions cover what I watched. Later research is labeled on dropped reviews. Kissing, affection and adult intimacy are separate; coercion does not count as romantic spice. Being apart does not automatically mean a breakup.

A PERSONAL VIEWING JOURNAL

Final Thoughts

I wanted to like Love Me Like I Do more than I actually did.

There were several things I genuinely enjoyed.

Tian Tian was a fun female lead.

I liked her temper.

I liked that she stood up for herself.

I liked that she had her own goals.

I liked that money did not immediately turn her brain off.

Her styling was cute.

Liu Yinjun carried a very familiar CEO character well.

And apparently everyone in this drama was contractually obligated to be beautiful.

But pretty people can only distract me for so long.

The pacing dragged.

The getting-together stage dragged.

Some of the push-and-pull dragged.

And eventually, I got bored.

For an 18-episode drama with roughly 30-minute episodes, I should not feel like I am begging the romance to start moving.

This could have been a fun, fast, addictive short drama.

Instead, it took a fairly simple romantic comedy and stretched it until I stopped caring enough to finish.

3/5.

Cute cast.

Good female lead.

Handsome CEO.

Too much waiting.

And somewhere out there, Liu Xilai is probably unconscious next to a stop sign. 😂

OFFICIAL STREAMING

Where to Watch

iQIYI / iQ — official series listing: official Mandarin release with English-subtitled episode pages. Availability may vary by region and can change.

The listing identifies the 2023 series and all 18 episodes. Current U.S. playback, every episode’s subtitles, and audio/video quality were not independently playback-tested.

Official listing and highlights checked September 26, 2026. This is a Dropped review; researching the ending does not change that status.

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