CHINESE SHORT DRAMA REVIEW · 08

The Deliberations
of Love Review

Chinese title卿卿三思

Strong chemistry, a devoted male lead, excellent romantic payoff, attractive visuals, and a soundtrack that makes the romance hit harder. I just wanted more kisses.

Quick Drama Details

Year
2023
Episodes
24
Starring
Li Fei as Pei Xun; Zhao Jiamin as Liu Yueqing
Platform
WeTV
My rating
4.5/5
Official WeTV poster for The Deliberations of Love (卿卿三思), featuring Li Fei and Zhao Jiamin

THE ROMANCE CHECK

Quick Answers

Relationship spoilers below.

Is there an early kiss?
Yes, in Episode 5. Genuine trust and emotional commitment develop as the story continues.
Do timeline resets count as breakups?
No. Deaths and fantasy resets are distinct from an ordinary romantic breakup cycle.
How does it end?
Happy and together. Pei Xun appears as Yueqing’s husband in the final timeline in Episode 24.

💗 Shen Zhiyi’s Drama Reality Check

Finished. Personal opinions plus checked relationship facts.

💕 Romance
Strong romantic payoff; the couple and soundtrack were the main attraction.
🔥 Chemistry
High
💋 Kissing
Very good, but I wanted more kisses.
🤗 Skinship
Some
🌶️ Spiciness / Adult Intimacy
High
🚩 ML Red Flag
Green Flag — Pei Xun is devoted, protective, and completely invested in the woman he loves.
👑 Female Lead Competence
Yueqing uses the reset to try to change her fate; a separate competence score is not established.
⏱️ Romance Timing
Early kiss in Episode 5; trust builds through the story and love is established before the finale.
❤️‍🔥 Relationship Payoff
Satisfying couple ending; I wanted more time, kisses and affection.
💔 Breakup
💚 No BreakupDeaths and timeline resets are not ordinary romantic breakups.
⏳ Separation / Conflict
Deaths, danger and fantasy resets interrupt their lives; distinguish them from romantic rejection.
💍 Final Relationship Status
Together in the final timeline, with Pei Xun appearing as Yueqing's husband in Episode 24.
📖 Plot
Good
🐾 Animal Harm
None identified in checked materialThis is not a guarantee that every animal scene is absent.
About these assessments

My impressions cover what I watched. Later research is labeled on dropped reviews. Kissing, affection and adult intimacy are separate; coercion does not count as romantic spice. Being apart does not automatically mean a breakup.

A PERSONAL VIEWING JOURNAL

My Review

I really loved The Deliberations of Love. It is one of those short dramas where the chemistry does a lot of the heavy lifting, but in this case, I was perfectly fine with that.

The biggest reasons this worked for me were the chemistry between the leads, the romance, and the soundtrack. The music especially added a lot to the atmosphere and made the romantic scenes hit harder. The drama also looked really good overall. I liked the costumes, styling, and general visual presentation.

Pei Xun and Liu Yueqing

Li Fei was easily one of the highlights for me. Pei Xun is exactly the kind of male lead I usually enjoy: devoted, protective, and completely invested in the woman he loves. I loved him. Liu Yueqing was also a good female lead and matched him well, even though I liked him a little more than I liked her individually.

Their chemistry was excellent. The romantic payoff was very good, and I never felt frustrated with the way their relationship was handled. There was no constant hot-and-cold nonsense making me wonder why these two were even together. Once I was invested in them, the drama let me enjoy them as a couple.

I just wanted more romance

My main complaint is simple: I wanted more romance.

The kissing and physical chemistry were already very good, which honestly just made me want even more of it. For a drama with this much chemistry, I would have happily taken additional romantic scenes, more affection, and more time with them simply being together.

I also cannot pretend that I was deeply invested in everything happening outside the romance. The larger plot existed, and it kept the story moving, but I was mostly there for Pei Xun and Liu Yueqing. Every time the story returned to them, that was where my attention went.

Pacing and ending

The pacing, however, was very good. It stayed engaging and never felt painfully slow, which is especially important for a short drama. Both leads also sold the romance well enough that even when I cared less about the surrounding plot, I still wanted to keep watching.

The ending was good and satisfying, but I wanted a little more romantic payoff before it was over. Not because the ending was bad—I just liked this couple enough that I was not ready for the drama to stop giving me scenes with them.

I probably would not rewatch the entire series from beginning to end, but I would absolutely go back and rewatch specific romantic scenes. 👀

RELATIONSHIP MILESTONES

Three Lifetimes, One Extremely Persistent Man: Relationship Timeline

Major spoilers ahead.

  1. Episode 1

    The Original Tragic Timeline

    The story begins with a previous disastrous lifetime/timeline that ends in death.

    That death/reset should not be recorded as a normal romantic breakup.

  2. Episode 2

    The Reset

    Liu Yueqing wakes before the marriage has fully played out again and tries to change her fate.

    She attempts to avoid the path that previously ended badly.

    This is pre-relationship avoidance in the new timeline, not a breakup.

  3. Episode 5

    Early Kiss

    While affected by drugs, Yueqing impulsively kisses Pei Xun.

    Pei Xun recognizes that she is impaired and does not take advantage of the situation.

  4. Episodes 6–10

    Pei Xun Keeps Choosing Her

    Pei Xun continues pursuing and protecting Yueqing.

    His actions gradually make it harder for her to treat him only as the dangerous man connected to the previous timeline.

  5. Mid-Series

    Trust Replaces Fear

    Their relationship shifts from suspicion and fate-avoidance into genuine trust and affection.

  6. Episode 22

    Established Love

    At the army outpost, Yueqing openly trusts that Pei Xun will return to her.

    They kiss, and their emotional commitment is unmistakable.

  7. Episode 23

    He Risks His Life for Her

    Pei Xun rescues Yueqing and puts himself in serious danger.

  8. Episode 24

    Final Timeline / Husband Ending

    Pei Xun appears in the final timeline as Yueqing's husband, and the two share an affectionate snowy reunion.

    The timeline mechanics may be complicated, but the romantic answer is not:

    They end up together.

Breakup / Separation Status

  • Traditional breakup cycle: No
  • Deaths/timeline resets: Yes
  • Do timeline resets count as romantic breakups?: No
  • Hot-cold relationship: No
  • Ending: Happy and together

Final thoughts

Overall, The Deliberations of Love gave me exactly what I want from this kind of drama: strong chemistry, a devoted male lead, a likable main couple, good pacing, attractive visuals, and a soundtrack that actually added something to the experience.

I just needed more kisses. 😭

THE FINAL WORD

My Final Take

What worked
Lead chemistry, romance, soundtrack, visuals, good pacing, and a devoted male lead.
What I wanted more of
More romantic scenes, affection, time together, and kisses.
Rewatch
I would revisit specific romantic scenes, but probably not the entire series.
My rating
4.5/5

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